If you’re into BDSM, then you know that the right outfit can make all the difference between playing just for fun and really getting into it. In order to help you find the perfect BDSM outfit. We’ve compiled this list of the 10 best outfits on the market right now. It may not be the most scientific list but trust us. These items are sure to spice up your next kinky session!
1) Ankle Cuffs
Leather ankle cuffs are an essential bondage accessory for just about any play. They’re secure, easy to wear, and made of soft materials that won’t chafe your skin. Ankle cuffs can be used in lots of ways: attached to restraints on a bed or crossbeam; connected by rope or chain to another set of cuffs (handcuffs); used as a safe word reminder, or left on during intercourse.
2) Leather Collar
One of my favorite things about a leather collar is that it’s pretty durable. This means you can wear it for a long time and probably never have to replace it. And, while they’re durable, they are also super sexy. This makes them perfect for anyone who wants to look good in bed and make their partner feel confident as well.
3) Strap On Dildo
Whether you’re ready to explore pegging or want to ramp up your bedroom game, a strap-on dildo is a great choice. This one in particular features vibrations and offers powerful suction at its base so it will stay firmly in place during use. It also comes with a remote that allows for hands-free operation. This toy can be used on either men or women and will deliver mind-blowing results.
4) Buckle Bondage Belt
Binders, also known as buckles, can be used to make a simple bondage belt. A binder is simply a buckle with holes in it—often just a series of fabric straps that thread through. To use one as part of your outfit, slip it around your waist and tie its straps together behind you. The resulting bondage belt will help keep you in check when you’re acting out kinky scenes at home or trying new things at a sex club or other public space.
5) Nipple Clamps
Beginners should start with nipple clamps, which attach to your breasts by clamping onto your nipples. There are many different kinds of nipple clamps, so when shopping for a pair, make sure you know what you want. For example, some people like clothespins-style clamps that can be adjusted to get more or less pressure on your nipples; others like clamp sets that feature various size weights. The most important thing is to make sure you know how much pressure you’re comfortable with before getting started.
6) Flogger
A flogger is a multi-tailed whip, usually made of leather. It’s a commonly used implement in BDSM play, often because it delivers sensations that appeal to both casual and serious kinksters. While you can buy ready-made ones at any sex shop or even online, it’s much more fun (and educational) to DIY your own. Doing so lets you experiment with different colors, materials, and textures to find one that most closely matches your needs and desires.
7) Handcuffs
The granddaddy of BDSM outfits, handcuffs are a tried-and-true way to restrain your partner for erotic play. Whether you opt for classic metal cuffs or more modern neoprene ones, keep in mind that these items should never be used for restraint purposes outside of a consensual environment.
8) Blindfold
While you can go to any adult toy store and buy yourself a blindfold. There’s something exciting about making your own. You’ll save some money and be able to decide exactly what you want in it—is it silk or lace? Are you going for a simple strap that’s easily adjustable, or do you want something with more variety? It can also add an element of surprise, as your partner won’t know. What you have planned for them until they see it.
9) Leg Irons and/or Spreader Bar
Okay, these items aren’t for beginners or for light play. They are considered some of the best BDSM outfits. The ability to be restrained and forced into new positions or restrained in a way that restricts your movement is a great turn-on for some people who enjoy being submissive. Your partner can use these items to position you any way they want, even if it isn’t something you have tried before.
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10) Spanking Paddle
Our pick for the best BDSM outfit is leather, with a leather paddle at its center. The wide leather straps are designed to dangle and flog your partner during play. While also providing some cushioning against impact. It features a cushioned handle to ensure you can deliver as hard of a spanking as desired while maintaining your grip. Though it’s probably not everyone’s cup of tea. If you want an affordable and effective BDSM outfit, we recommend starting here.